The bride usually does not have the bridesmaids or groomsmen open the car door when getting off the wedding car. When the lead car arrives at the wedding venue, the groomsman first gets off the car and goes from the back of the car to the left rear door to open the door for the groom. The groom then goes from the front of the car to the right rear door to open the door for the bride and carries her off the car.
What are the rules for brides to get off the car
1. Set off firecrackers before getting off the car
In many rural areas, firecrackers are set off before the bride gets off the car to welcome and celebrate, as well as to remove any negative energy.
2. Feet not touching the ground
Just like when getting on the bus, the bride also avoids stepping on the ground when getting off the bus. Generally, a red carpet is laid out for the bride to walk on until she enters the bridal chamber and sits on the bed, or the groom carries the bride into the bridal chamber.
3. Grandma, give me candy
Before the bride gets off the car, the mother-in-law needs to give her a piece of candy to eat, then wrap a big red envelope and give her a pair of new SHOES.
4. Sow five grains
On the way from the bride's car to the entrance of the man's house, there is a custom of scattering five grains. Sprinkle five grains on the bride's head to wish her a happy and fulfilling married life. Only after marriage can she have abundant and auspicious grains.
5. Do not come into contact with four types of people
When the bride gets off the car, do not come into contact with pregnant women, people who have just finished their funeral, widows, and newlyweds to avoid ruining the happiness of the newlyweds.