The man does not need to pay a dowry and the woman does not need a dowry. The so-called "two sides walk" marriage mode, that is, when men and women get married, the man does not give money, the woman does not do dowry, the man buys a wedding, gets married and lives in a new house, has a child, and the two sides jointly support the elderly of both sides.
One, what is going both ways
Walking on both sides is the word of marriage, which means that after marriage, both husband and wife (generally the only child) have to live on both sides during the holidays, take care of both sides, and run around on both sides.
The so-called "two-sided" marriage model, that is, when men and women get married, as long as both men and women are willing to have a house; The man does not pay a gift, the woman does not do a dowry, the man does a wedding, gets married and lives in a new house, has a child in the two families, uses the surname combination of the two sides or premarital agreement to give birth to a child to decide the child's surname (such as a son with the father's name, a daughter with the mother's name, the man can choose to buy both sides of the banquet the man can first), the two sides support the elderly.
Two, how to get married on both sides
Most do not require a dowry, but a small number of women's families demand a dowry, giving the man the right to choose the child's surname.
1, most of the "two come two go" do not need bride price
"Two come two go" is also known as "both sides go", "two families and one family", that is, men and women only need to have a room when they are willing to marry, the man does not give a gift, the woman does not buy a dowry, the man does a wedding, live in a new house after marriage, have children, the two families are agreed to use both surnames, such as the boy with his father, the girl with her mother, and the two people together for the elderly.
2, a small number of women's families ask for dowry
The "go both ways" child sharing system makes surnames a matter of dispute between the two families, in which the woman's family offers a modest dowry price and then compromises on the name of the child, but only if one child takes the mother's name or a mixed name.