After the couple is reconciled, the heart will inevitably be unhappy, so we must remember when sorting out the quarrel process, learn to think in other people's SHOES. After reconciliation, we should also interact more, feel that the light chat is too boring, you can play some games suitable for young couples to play together, or prepare some small surprises to each other, which is conducive to the recovery of feelings.
1. Empathy
After the couple is reconciled, the heart will inevitably be unhappy. Therefore, when sorting out the process of this quarrel, we must remember to learn to think in each other's shoes, stand in the other side's point of view to think about this matter, pay more attention to the other side's ideas and emotions, so that you may understand the other side's ideas, and the grievance in your heart will be less than half.
2. Prepare small surprises
After reconciliation, the best way to warm up each other's feelings is to create small surprises. Do not have to choose a day to send a surprise, you can prepare some heart-moving surprise gifts, and then with warm words, so that two people regain the love of life and the freshness of each other.
3. Interact frequently
After reconciliation, do not ignore each other, and increase interaction is conducive to emotional recovery. In addition to daily work and study, we should also set aside some time for each other. If you feel that the light chat is too boring, you can also play some games suitable for young couples to play together to increase the sense of interaction in the game.
4. Give each other a sense of security
Security is two people to keep in touch, do not lose communication. Boys before doing anything, it is best to talk to girls, this does not mean that girls limit your freedom, this is the sense of security you give your girlfriend. Let her know that you are thinking of him and will not give her the cold shoulder, which will also reassure her.