The man to the woman must take red envelopes, hands of flowers, smoke and salute, red envelopes can be prepared big red envelopes and small red envelopes, smoke to prepare a little smoke, more decent, the number of salute needs to be prepared according to local customs. In addition, some places will also require four gifts, that is, 2 pieces of female meat, 2 fish, 4 green Onions, 4 vermilion, so the man must understand the woman's local customs before receiving, according to local customs to bring gifts.