After all, it is the former relationship, in many things, there is a certain tacit understanding, but also understand what kind of topic the other party is most interested in, so you can talk about some common topics. Take each other to remember some of the good things in the past together, can also soothe each other's hurt heart. Talk to your ex about work and life and give him some attention when necessary.
1. Common topics
After all, it is the former relationship, so in a lot of things, there is a certain tacit understanding, but also to understand what kind of topic the other party is most interested in, so at this time, you can use your own advantages, appropriate to create some common topics, so that the relationship between the two people a little less, do not be as stiff as the enemy.
2. Remember the good things
When chatting with the ex, you can take the other party to remember some good things in the past, so that the other party can also fall into the kind of sweet you used to, so that the other party will not feel so cold to you, will be much better than the time after the hand, so as to comfort the other party's hurt heart.
3. Talk about work and life
You and your ex must be familiar with each other, and you can give each other comfort in some ideas, so you can talk about work and life appropriately. Asking how he's doing, or asking about his career, can give you something to talk about.