Say no explicitly: Say no outright, "I'm sorry, but I don't think things are right between us."
Politely decline: Language tactfully, "I am not considering a relationship for the time being."
Form of letter or message: "Sorry, everyone was here, I didn't want to ruin the atmosphere, thank you for liking me, but I don't think we're a good match, we'd better be friends if you like."
1. Say no
In the relationship, if you do not like the other party must clearly refuse, do not let your relationship become fuzzy, which will make the other party misunderstanding. Both hurt each other and hurt themselves, and waste each other's feelings and time. It is better to refuse the other party immediately, but be careful not to use too strong a tone and give others a sense of discomfort. For example: "Sorry, I don't think it's right between us." "Sorry, you're not my type." "Sorry, I have a crush."
2. Gently decline
If the other person's personality is more sensitive, or you think that your refusal will hurt the other person, you can choose a more tactful way to refuse. For example: "I'm not considering a relationship for the time being." "I still want to be friends with you." This kind of euphemism will not hurt the other person, but also let the other person understand your attitude.
3. Form of letter or message
If there are others present when you confess, and you are not able to refuse directly, then you can choose to use a letter or message to explain the reason to the other party, and then refuse him, and apologize to the other party. At this time, it is best to use a sincere tone, let the other person feel that you are sorry. For example: "I'm sorry everyone was here. I didn't want to ruin the atmosphere. Thank you for liking me, but I don't think we're a good match.