Open marriage means that a woman has to go through the process of proposing her marriage before getting married. Open marriage means that a woman should maintain a clean body before getting married. Ancient women pay attention to the three obeditions and four virtues, and pay more attention to a woman's reputation.
What does it mean to marry a perfect person
The ancient people were conservative, they wanted a woman to be perfect before she went to the court, and they wanted to marry a perfect woman and they wanted to say that only a perfect woman was worthy of a perfect woman. Ancient people pay more attention to a woman's reputation and the reputation of the family, if the woman is not perfect when she marries, she will be considered misbehaving, being discussed and pointed at, if the woman's style is not good, the family will be ashamed of it.
Second, the significance of modern marriage
In ancient times, arranged by parents' order, they had to go through the process of three books and six rites to get married, but those who did not go through this process and engage for life were not married in the actual sense.
Modern gift money, wedding banquet, marriage certificate, that is, open marriage. Now the process of marriage is very simple, as long as the law confirms, you can get a marriage certificate. But modern marriage, but also to see parents, give money and do wedding, gift money is the identification of women, although the wedding banquet is optional, but do wedding more lively, and the marriage certificate is the proof and protection of the relationship between the two.