After the failure of the confession, you can help resolve the awkward atmosphere and divert the attention of both parties by saying it openly, comforting yourself or laughing at yourself, changing the topic or quickly leaving the scene. At the same time, we should learn to improve our acceptance and affirmation, and be tolerant of ourselves, not entangled in the matter of confession failure.
1. Be honest about your awkwardness
"Well, I failed to express my love, and I will be embarrassed to face you later." Although you think we are not suitable now, but I still like you very much, I am afraid that recently I still can not help myself like you. Maybe you can adjust your mind after a while, I hope you don't hate me too much."
When you talk about the awkward situation openly, it eases the atmosphere for both parties and it's okay to talk about normal topics or just leave the conversation. At the same time, his heart does not need to deal with "if... Will not "to fight the idea.
2. Comfort yourself or laugh at yourself
"You don't agree, I'm relieved, I also feel unreliable, still good friends can last a lifetime."
"It seems that mine is only for Daniel Wu."
Man: "I like you, be my girlfriend!" Woman: "Sorry I might... Male: "That's all right, let's worship a man!" "
When you can laugh off the embarrassment of your failure, you are telling yourself, "I am comfortable with what I have done."
3. Change the subject or leave the scene quickly
Sometimes, can not accept the results of their failure to express, change the topic or quickly leave the scene, to avoid being surrounded by people's eyes and judgment, is also a way to protect themselves.