There is no absolute answer to the principle of men and women spending money in love, there are mainly three situations: 1, if the economic conditions of boys are good, boys can spend more money. 2, if the girl economy is good, and also willing to pay for the boy, then the girl to spend more money is OK. 3. Going Dutch is also a popular spending mode between couples. Although the specific situation needs specific analysis, the best spending pattern between couples should be borne by everyone together, rather than by one person.
1. It depends on the actual situation
For the less large amount of expenses between men and women in love, it is recommended that the man should pay more appropriate, but if the amount is larger or more frequent expenses, the man's income should be considered to decide.
If the economic conditions of the man are good, you can pay more, and if the economic conditions of the woman also allow, it is also a good choice for the larger expenditure, the two people to bear together.
2. Girls should be considerate
Although the man's condition is better, the girl also remember not to blindly ask the boy to pay. Pay is mutual, whether it is feelings or money, need each other to bear, if just blindly let the boyfriend pay, do not understand the boyfriend, then over time the boys will feel tired.
3. Don't kidnap with love
When you want the other party to spend money for you, or you want to get the other party's bank card, you may use love to kidnap the other party, so that the other party is unable to resist, for example, you will directly threaten the other party "Don't you trust me?" "This is only a small amount of money, now you do not want to spend on me, what do you expect after marriage?" This practice is highly undesirable.
4. Girls have to pay too
Not all the dates should be paid by the boys, there are some girls will take the initiative to pay, such girls, first of all, you will feel that you ask me once, I want to return you once, this is a polite performance, do not feel that love is not polite. Two people should have all the courtesy and respect before they become husband and wife, so paying the bill is also a form of respect.