Rarely respond to news, may have cold violence: there are a type of people in the relationship is not mature, when the passion of love fades, some impatience with the partner, will take cold violence.
Suddenly busy: Your partner becomes unusually busy. Not necessarily really busy, just don't want two people together.
Become impatient, will not be considerate: the object seems to lose the power of observation and memory, once careful and patient disappear.
Three years of pain describes the experience of three years between lovers, if the running-in is not good enough, then it is difficult to continue smoothly and even into marriage, may suffer the pain of breaking up. When three years of pain comes, there will be more obvious performance.
1, rarely respond to messages, may have cold violence
There are a kind of people who are not mature enough in the emotional style, when the passion of love fades and some intolerant emotions are generated for their partners, they will take cold violence. When it is found that the object often ignores the message, often does not reply or only returns a few words as a perfunctory; The partner can play video games or watch TV, can chat with others or even lie there is not willing to two people together, this performance should cause alarm.
2. Suddenly get busy
Suddenly from a certain day, the partner began to be unusually busy. Today is not the need to work overtime, tomorrow is the need to socialize, and even the day after tomorrow is full of meetings and study. The time that once belonged to two people was erased from his busy calendar, perhaps not really busy, just don't want to spend too much time together.
3. Become impatient and inconsiderate
If the feelings gradually flat down, and there are contradictions not solved in time, the object may be estranged in the heart. Once very considerate, some uncomfortable will be aware, can remember each anniversary of the partner seems to lose the power of observation and memory, once careful and patient suddenly disappeared.
4. Become very independent, spoiled and dependent
Regardless of boys and girls, it is easy to become a "spoiled essence" in love, because they care about it, they want to get attention very much. If you get a little achievement, you want to get the praise of your partner at the first time, and if you get a little hurt, you want the comfort of your partner. Your heart will become soft and fragile because of your partner's words and deeds.
When three years of pain comes, the partner's attitude gradually becomes cold and indifferent, naturally will no longer show the soft side, all coqueness and dependence are gone.