The box money has nothing to do with the man. The money given by the bride's parents as a gift should generally be recognized as a gift from the bride's parents. According to relevant laws and regulations in China, if two people get married before obtaining a marriage certificate, the money given by the bride's parents as a gift only belongs to the daughter's personal property and has nothing to do with the groom. Unless the couple got married after obtaining the certificate and it is not clear that the gift was given to the female party separately, then it belongs to the joint property of husband and wife.
Box Money Lucky Numbers
Usually, each region has its own market for how much to put in the box money. Female parents can refer to the local box money market to put in, or they can put in the box money according to their own economic situation.
The common auspicious numbers for general box money include 3333 yuan, 6666 yuan, 8888 yuan, 9999 yuan, 10001 yuan, etc. These different auspicious numbers represent different meanings.
3333 yuan represents life and prosperity, 6600 yuan represents "smoothness and benefits", 6666 yuan means smoothness and prosperity, 8888 yuan represents blessings for the newlyweds to get rich, 9999 yuan represents marital love and long-lasting love, and 10001 yuan represents the bride's "one in a million".