The arrangement of the main table depends on local customs and the family situation of the newlyweds. In most cases, it is arranged for other close relatives such as parents, grandparents, etc. to sit at the main table.
1、 Who is usually arranged to sit at the main table of a wedding banquet
The main table of the wedding banquet, also known as the distinguished table, is the most important table in the wedding banquet table.
1. At the main table, the close relatives of the new couple will be seated, such as their parents, grandparents, brothers and sisters and other respected elders. The seating arrangement usually involves the newlyweds sitting in the center of the main table facing everyone, with the groom sitting to the left of the bride; To the left of the groom are his mother, father, and the elders of his parents; To the right of the bride are her father, mother, and elders of her parents; The families of the newlyweds sit opposite each other with the newlyweds as the center Schematic diagram of wedding banquet main table arrangement
If there are too many people, two main tables can be opened, one for elder relatives and the other for brothers and sisters. Some newcomers will invite their leaders to sit at the main table.
2. In some regions, both men and women will arrange a main table, and the seating order is as follows:
Male main table: The groom and bride are at the top, followed by the male's parents, grandparents, uncles, and other elders on either side;
Female main table: The first person is the female's parents, followed by grandparents, uncles, and other elders.
2、 Wedding banquet seating precautions
1. The main table is exquisite
Generally speaking, newlyweds, parents, and close relatives will sit at the main table near the center of the banquet hall, and then arrange for their relatives and friends to be seated according to the custom of "male left, female right". If both parties have a large number of family members, they can set up one table on each side of the main table, or arrange them in the first row near the main table Nephew getting married, uncle sitting at the main table
(1) Traditional Wedding
① Nowadays, most weddings have T-shaped stages, and the main table should be placed close to both the stage and the aisle.
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If there is no aisle on the stage, place the main table in the center.
(2) Western style wedding
Some Western style wedding banquet tables are long tables, which can be arranged according to the closeness of the relationship between the guests and the newlyweds.
2. Prioritize the arrangement of distinguished guests
When arranging seats, it is important to place distinguished guests such as elders, leaders, and guests in the front position. On the one hand, this is to show respect to them, and on the other hand, when toasting, priority can be given to completing their table toasting. This way, elders and leaders will not wait too long, and if they need to leave early, it is also more convenient.
3. Arrange other seats based on guest relationships
Arrangements can be made based on the intimacy between guests and the number of visitors. Concentrate relatives in one area, friends, colleagues, and classmates in one area, avoid arranging people with poor relationships at one table, and try to ensure that each table has 10 people and there are no empty seats.
(1) My friend
The easiest thing to arrange at a wedding is good friends, because they have a close relationship, so there is no need to be too particular, but it is still important to consider their feelings. It is best to arrange those who know each other at the same table, or separate men and women to give the boys a space to release themselves.
(2) Children
Children are an uncontrollable factor at the wedding venue, especially those aged 4-9, who have a strong curiosity and are more mischievous when gathered together. In addition to placing them next to their parents, it is also necessary to avoid unsafe factors around them. Stay away from dangerous equipment such as wires, sockets, etc.
(3) Arrange acquaintances together
For new colleagues and friends, familiar people should be arranged at a table to facilitate communication between them. If unfamiliar guests are arranged at a table, acquaintances should also be interspersed to avoid embarrassment. Colleagues and friends are usually arranged in the middle area of the wedding banquet.
(4) Single friends
Arranging all single friends together is a very interesting thing, which can help these friends make friends and get out of singlehood, but it is best to arrange some acquaintances to sit at the same table to prevent strangers from having nothing to say when they are together.
4. Pre customized seating plan
After determining the number of guests, customize the seating plan in advance, which not only facilitates overall planning and arrangement, but also allows guests to find their seats as soon as possible on the wedding day.
3、 The rules for arranging wedding tables
1. The position of the guests and hosts at the wedding banquet is the center of the front facing door.
2. The closer the table or seat is to the host, the closer the relationship between the guest and the host.
3. Newlyweds' parents usually sit not adjacent to each other, while guests sit on the right-hand side of both parents in order of seniority.
4. In terms of seating arrangement, seniors, brothers and sisters can be arranged at the same table or adjacent areas.
5. The host's accompanying guests should be inserted between the guests as much as possible to facilitate conversation with them.