It is advisable to choose a leap year and a leap month: that is, there are two "Beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in the year; The woman shall prevail: to see the situation of the eight characters of both men and women, but also to see the situation of the woman; Avoid parents' birthdays: Parents' birthdays should not be the same as the auspicious wedding day; Avoid the days of three niangsha and Yang Gong taboo: on the anniversary of death, do not marry, do not move civil, do not go relatives and friends; Avoid the lunar calendar of September 37: in these three months there is a "ghost festival", it is not appropriate to do happy events.
1. Choose a leap year and a leap month
According to tradition, a year with a leap month will have a good omen, and there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there will be two "start of spring" and one "leap month" in that year.
In addition, there is also a saying that in the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month of the full moon, that is, the lunar month of August is the most suitable month for weddings.
2. Choose the date according to the woman
As the saying goes, "men rely on birth, women rely on marriage day", the choice of marriage year and month, depends on the situation of both men and women, but also depends on the situation of the woman.
On the auspicious day of a woman's marriage, there is an old saying: the seven meet the chickens and rabbits, the twenty-eight tigers and monkeys, the thirty-nine snakes and pigs, the forty dragons and dogs, the fifty-one cattle and sheep, the sixty-two mice and horses.
3. Avoid parents' birthdays
In traditional numerology, the birth date of parents should not be the same as the auspicious day of marriage, that is, the day of parents' birthday should not be married.
4. Avoid the days of Sanniang and Yang Gong
According to legend, the elder does not lead the red line for the third niang, so that she can not marry. Based on the psychology of revenge, the three niang will oppose the old man, and specially destroy the happy event of the couple, so the three Niang day of the month, that is, the third day, the seventh day, the thirteenth day, the eighteenth day, the twenty-second day and the twenty-seventh day, should not be married.
Yang Gong Ji 13 in the whole year, two in July, the rest of the month one. From the 13th day of the first month of the lunar calendar, push forward two days each month, that is, the 13th day of the first month, February 11, March 9, April 7, May 5, June 3, July 1, July 29, August 27, September 25, October 23, November 21, and December 19. On the anniversary of death, do not marry, do not move, do not go relatives and friends.
5. Avoid the lunar month of March 7
According to the old tradition, it is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in the lunar calendar in March, July and September, because these three months fall on the "Qingming", "Yu LAN" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are traditional "ghost festivals" and are not suitable for happy events.
However, these are not absolute, the most important thing is to arrange the wedding date scientifically according to the local marriage customs and the opinions of the elders, combined with the actual situation.
6. Focus on the wedding date
If you decide to separate the date of the registration from the wedding ceremony, it is best to choose both days.
If it is to be chosen, it should be held on the auspicious day of the traditional ceremony of greeting the bride and laying out the wine, because Chinese tradition always regards this day as the real wedding day.