Personal basic information: family situation, interests, emotional status, etc. Personal expectations: attitude and ideas towards feelings, personal consumption outlook or consumption situation, what views or mind points for boys, what requirements for future life. The idea of marriage: The idea of marriage, the question of having children, etc., the best point to ask, do not ask too offensive.
1. Basic personal information
The first thing to know about a blind date is the basic situation of the person. In this way, we can have a preliminary understanding of each other, such as the current working situation, but we do not need to ask too much detail, and we can have a cognition of the nature of each other's basic work.
2. Family situation
Family information is also something you should always ask about on a blind date. For example, there are several people in the family, single parents, or siblings. Do not ask too offensive, otherwise it is very much like checking the hukou, which is a very negative behavior.
3. Hobbies
Asking about the other person's interests during a blind date can help open up a conversation. If you meet someone who has almost the same hobbies as you, it is possible to increase understanding and cognition, and it is very likely that you will become friends if not partners in the future.
4. Relationship status
Appropriately ask each other's emotional status, can also judge the other person is a large probability of personality. But this question is best to stop, too thorough inquiry will cause girls to dislike.
5. Thoughts about feelings
This question is to ask the girl about the relationship is what kind of ideas, such as what to expect in a new relationship, or what kind of goals need two people to accomplish, and so on, then the boy will know how the girl thinks about the relationship.
6. Consumption situation
Because the consumption outlook of two people will affect the situation of getting along in the future, so the boy can also ask the girl's consumption outlook. At the same time, through the self-cognition of girls' treatment of consumption, we can see whether it is within the scope of boys' acceptance.
7. My views on boys
Because personality and some living habits will directly give people stereotypes, so boys can also ask girls when dating, mind what kind of boys, such as personality, or hate what kind of shortcomings, so that boys can compare their own behavior.
8. Strength status
Because their own strength will directly affect the lives of two people, so the boys can take the initiative to ask the girls what requirements for later life. Hope that girls can give the answer to the question of strength, mainly to see whether the girls treat the status quo of boys is relatively high, or prefer more potential boys.
9. Thoughts on marriage
When entering the stage of a deep topic, boys can also ask girls what kind of ideas for marriage, not only the form of the wedding, but also the view of marriage, the cognition of life status after marriage and so on. This kind of problem is more realistic, and the number of times will generally be less, but it is also a problem that will inevitably occur after a long time of understanding.
10. The problem of having children
Some boys eager to date may have a certain idea of children, so there will be a few boys in the blind date mentioned the problem of having children and so on. But in fact, this is not very polite, if you want to talk about it first, it is best not to say this problem first, it will make girls very disgusted.