Parents have to pay for the change. The change fee is that at the change ceremony, the couple presents tea to the parents of both sides, and then changes the name of parents, and the parents will give the new couple the change fee. Both parents to change the fee is to express the identification of the son-in-law and daughter-in-law, said that from now on is a family, but also represents the parents of the new good wishes.
Parents have to pay for the change
The change fee paid by both parents is the recognition and respect of the relationship between the two people and the two families, which is also part of the change ceremony, reflecting the traditional Chinese etiquette culture.
At the same time, parents' change fee is also a kind of subsidy for the formation of a new family, after all, the newly established family must need money, and parents' sponsorship can improve the life of the new person to a certain extent.
What is a change fee
The change fee is that the couple calls each other's parents as "dad" and "mom" when serving tea to both parents according to traditional customs, and the parents of both sides will give the couple red envelopes, which contain the "change fee" for the couple.
Amount of change fee
800 - The number 8 has always been regarded as a lucky number, homophonic "fa", meaning wealth, prosperity.
888 - can represent the meaning of Fa Fa, which means that the couple is blessed to make a fortune and go smoothly.
1001 - Parents give to the couple, choose one in a thousand.
1314 -- one lifetime. It means that the new feelings are sweet, long and long, life.
1999 - A long life, this is a good blessing for the new feelings.
6666 - represents smooth and smooth sailing.
8888 - represents the meaning of Fa Fa, meaning that the husband and wife are blessed to make a fortune and go smoothly.
10001 -- one in a million.
Note on change fee
1. Both parties should discuss the change fee in advance
The change fee can be discussed in advance, so as to avoid conflicts caused by the difference between the two parties' change fees.
2. The amount of change fee is reasonable
To be reasonably agreed according to the economic conditions of both families, the change fee is only the will of both parents, and should not be concerned about the amount of money.