The betrothal gifts for the betrothal include: a cash box, a ruler, a comb, a scale, a mirror, scissors, a doudou, and an abacus. Prepare endowment money, that is, bride price, it is best to give cash directly, inconvenient can use bank cards. Prepare three pieces of gold or hardware, including gold rings, gold earrings, gold necklaces, gold bracelets, and gold anklets. You can also prepare some other items that the wife's family can use.
1. Betrothal gifts
Traditionally speaking, betrothal gifts mainly include eight things: the money box, which means the woman's family is rich; Ruler, measure the happiness between you; Comb, meaning grow old together; Ruyi scale, meaning the newlyweds married life all the best; Mirror, life is perfect; Scissors, meaning the new life is very rich, silks and satins everything; All fight, on behalf of ample food and clothing; The abacus is a symbol of prosperity and prosperity.
2. Retainer
Betrothal money is the bride price, the amount of the bride price is generally agreed before marriage, so the man should also take the betrothal money to the woman when engaged. Gift is best to use cash, if the amount is relatively large can prepare a bank card, so more show their sincerity.
3, three gold or hardware
At the time of engagement, the man should also prepare gold jewelry for the woman, of which the amount of gold jewelry prepared in different places is different. Some places are three gold, including: gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings; Some places also have hardware, including: gold rings, gold earrings, gold necklaces, gold bracelets, gold anklets.
4. Other items
In addition to the above items that must be prepared, the man can also prepare some more thoughtful gifts according to the specific situation of the woman's family. Like some smart home appliances, or new clothes that need to be prepared for marriage, etc., the man can buy some for the woman, which also shows the importance of the woman.