According to marriage custom, in the wedding after 1 to 3 days, the couple need to go back to the bride's home, called "Hui door". Hui men will generally bring gifts of alcohol and tobacco, gifts, tea, fruit, milk, special products, health products, massage instrument, what gifts can be specific according to the actual economic conditions and the choice of both sides.
1. Tobacco and alcohol
The most common gifts in traditional marriage customs are tobacco and alcohol, which can not be denied just because the bride's parents do not have the habit of smoking and drinking. Generally, two bottles of good wine and a high-grade cigarette can express their intentions.
2. Holiday gifts
If the time just hit the festival, you need to buy holiday gifts, such as the Mid-Autumn Festival to send moon cakes, the Dragon Boat Festival to send dumplings, the New Year to send some New Year goods.
3. Tea
If the bride's family does not drink and smoke, and does not like alcohol and tobacco, then you can send some good tea, such as West Lake Longjing, Rizhao green tea, Laoshan green tea, Dongting Biluochun, Huangshan Maofeng, Anxi Tieguanyin and so on. Generally, tea is a gift that elders are not satisfied with, and many elders have the habit of drinking tea.
4. Fruit milk
You can bring some fruit and milk, reflecting very sensible. Although this gift is very ordinary, it also shows a piece of your mind.
5. Special Products
When a girl marries a man, if there are specialties in his hometown, she may wish to prepare some for her parents. This way of giving specialties can make the girl's parents rest assured of their daughters, and also highlight the will of the man's family.
6. Health care products
The health of family elders is the most important, and elderly people need to keep healthy. If the woman's family has calcium deficiency, poor absorption or other physical discomfort, you can send health care products.
7, massage equipment
This massage instrument belongs to the bride's family and the whole family can use the gift, practical but also show the mind. After work, do housework such activities will make people tired and sore, massage equipment can be a good relief from the pain, as a gift is very intimate.