It is okay to change your speech after obtaining a license or at a wedding, and there are no clear rules on this issue. According to custom and the wishes of both parents, many couples will choose to change their mouth after obtaining a license, at the time of engagement, at the time of wedding, and at the time of serving tea.
1. After obtaining the license
On behalf of the marriage certificate, you are already a couple in the legal sense, even if the banquet has not been done, it does not matter, the bride price, dowry and other negotiation process must be almost, so there is no problem in changing the name of parents.
2. When engaged
In the southern regions of Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Fujian, most of them change their words when they are engaged, of course, it is not absolute, it still depends on the specific local customs and the wishes of their parents. The engagement is also the marriage contract, and the two sides have begun to plan the wedding, so it is also possible to change the name of Mom and Dad.
3. When you get married
Although it is not relevant to change the engagement or marriage, but in fact, it is generally recommended to change the marriage at the time of marriage, because the engagement is only a wedding, the marriage relationship may also be variable, so it is generally safer to change the marriage at the time of tea.
4. When serving tea
Offering tea to parents is now a link that many couples will not miss, may be before marriage, may be engaged, can also be at the wedding site, because when offering tea, parents will give the red envelope of tea, that is, change the fee, so it is also very normal.