The time of the return door banquet: The general return door banquet is on the third day after the wedding, the specific time can be arranged according to local customs.
The DRESS of the door banquet: The couple should be formally dressed at the door banquet, but they can not wear the wedding dress when they were married, which means that they are "returned".
The guest of the home banquet: The guest of the home banquet should invite the woman's relatives and friends to attend, and the man's relatives and friends do not have to invite.
The gift of the return door banquet: the new son-in-law should bring the "return door gift", avoid the return door gift for a single, must be even means that husband and wife in pairs.
1, the time of the return banquet
The reception time is the time for the bride and groom to return home. In ancient times, the return time is generally on the third, sixth or ninth day after marriage, and there is also a saying that the full moon returns the door. However, there is not so much attention to the return time, and the new person can choose the time to return the door according to local customs.
2, the dress of the door banquet
Although the door banquet is not so grand as the wedding banquet, the bride and groom also need to dress up. The bride can not wear a wedding dress, because the wedding dress is worn at the time of marriage, if wearing a wedding dress in the wedding means that the bride has been returned by the man's family, it is bad. Therefore, in the back door banquet, the bride can choose a dignified lady's dress, or an elegant atmosphere of cheongsam, the color is mainly festive and lively.
3. Guests returning to the banquet
All the guests invited were friends and relatives of the woman's family. Some guests can't attend the couple's wedding because of distance problems or work reasons, so the couple will treat the guests who couldn't be there before on the return door. Of course, you can also invite guests who have participated in the wedding, and the return dinner is also a way to thank them for attending the wedding.
4, the gift of the door banquet
The new son-in-law should give the "return door gift" and "return door money" to the in-laws, and bring different gifts according to different places. Some with a rooster, take "good luck" meaning; Some bring some meat, eggs, noodles and other gifts; And more common or oranges, apples, bananas, wine, etc., the style is not fixed, but do not return to the door for a single, must be even, meaning couples in pairs, a good hundred years, the singular is unlucky.