When the man comes to the door, the woman's parents will give red envelopes, which is a greeting gift, representing that the parents agree that you fall in love, and they also think of you as the future son-in-law, this practice is the most convenient and most common. However, the custom in some areas is to give gifts to the man, which is also the meaning of recognizing the man.
When the man comes to the house, the woman's parents will give red envelopes.
This is the most convenient and most common practice, the red envelope is a greeting gift, representing that the woman's parents agree that you are in love, and they also value you as a future son-in-law.
However, the custom in some places is that the man brings a gift to the door, and the woman's family should express it, so it will send a gift to the man, as a return gift, which is also the meaning of recognizing the man.