Men and women meet their parents first. Because in the meeting etiquette on the premise of marriage, seeing the woman's parents first will appear to pay more attention to the woman, expressing the importance of the man to the woman. Of course, in modern society, seeing the man's family first is also the choice of many couples, seeing the man's parents can understand the man's family in advance, and give the woman a shot in advance.
First, the advantages of meeting the woman's parents first
1. Show respect for the woman
Usually it is the woman who takes the man to see his parents first, because since the man wants to marry the woman, he must have his own sincerity, meet the woman's parents first, and show respect for them.
2. Traditional customs
According to their own local customs and customs to decide, each place's customs and habits are different. Most Chinese families are more traditional.
In the past, it was usually the "hairy foot son-in-law" who went to the woman's home first to meet the future in-laws.
Now, some places still talk about this, and some places do not pay much attention to who gets to whose home first.
It is wise to respect folk customs and act according to local "rules".
Second, the advantages of meeting the husband's parents first
1, reduce the pressure when the man meets the woman's parents
If a girl in love wants to take her boyfriend home to meet her parents, then you have to meet his family first.
First of all, the pressure on men to meet their parents before marriage is inevitably greater than that on women, so men can let their girlfriends meet their parents first. After the woman has been recognized by the man's parents, the man will be more confident when he goes to see the woman's parents, and will also give an account, which reduces the pressure on the man to a certain extent.
2. Find out the man's family status in advance
After all, the future mother-in-law will inevitably be more picky about the son-in-law, whether it is the man's economic conditions, working conditions, family background and other objective conditions, as well as personality and personality, the prospective mother-in-law will pay special attention to. Therefore, the woman can first understand the man's family situation, and then discuss with the mother.