Door-to-door proposal is the man's family to the woman's family proposed marriage, need to prepare the gift, bride price list and meet the gift, meet the gift is generally proposed 6 gifts or 8 gifts.
First, what do you need to prepare for the door-to-door proposal
1. Gift money
Gift money is the money given to the woman when the man comes to the door to propose marriage, indicating the sincerity of wanting to marry the woman. The man should take the initiative to ask the woman about the amount of gift money, such as the amount of gift money, how to receive the betrothal gift. But also to determine whether the endowment fee includes marriage expenses and various rites and customs expenses, such as uncle ceremony, DRESSing ceremony, breast ceremony, table ceremony, chef ceremony, candle ceremony, dish ceremony, etc., should be discussed accordingly, so as to avoid subsequent disputes. The amount of money can be large or small, which can be given according to local wedding customs.
2. List of bride price
In many areas, one of the most important aspects of the marriage proposal process is the discussion of the bride price. Therefore, before the man comes to the door to propose a bride price, he must make a list of the bride price according to the local bride price situation, and estimate his range of tolerance, so that the two sides can discuss the specific amount.
3. Greeting gifts
When the man's family comes to the woman's door to propose marriage, the greeting ceremony is essential, and the greeting ceremony is also divided into six gifts and eight gifts. The gifts brought to the door must be even, such as tobacco and wine, candy, cakes, red dates, lotus seeds, sweet things (not limited to types), round cakes (on behalf of things can be round), apple gift boxes for good luck and happiness.
Second, door-to-door recommendations
1, pay attention to clothing appearance: clothing must be appropriate and appropriate, appearance to be clean and tidy.
2, show respect: the woman's requirements or opinions, as far as possible to show respect, in accordance with their provisions to handle, otherwise once the disagreement, the atmosphere on the spot is too stiff is not conducive to the development of the relationship between the two sides.
3, on time for the appointment: do not be late, if really because of traffic jams or other force majeure factors, be sure to call to inform will arrive a little later time.