There are many disadvantages to getting a license before getting engaged. For example, a boyfriend will not cherish himself; In-laws will look down on themselves and think they are cheap; The marriage process will be greatly reduced by getting a license first; The conflict between the two families will increase before marriage.
1, boys will not cherish
For girls who are easy to marry and do not have any difficulty to conquer, boys will not cherish them. Not in accordance with the normal order of engagement and marriage license, boys will feel that girls are chasing their own marriage, they will feel that their charm is unlimited, and even feel that you do not deserve their own, and they will not cherish you.
2, will let the in-laws look down on
The older generation pays special attention to tradition, for the girls who get married after getting a license, they will feel that the girls are too active, not reserved at all, and will leave the impression that "the girl is too casual". And in their eyes, the right marriage is the correct etiquette, has not gone through the marriage process to become a legal couple, will inevitably be despised by them.
3. The marriage process will be greatly reduced
They will think that since they have obtained the certificate is their family, since they have married into the door, then those cumbersome and expensive etiquette and procedures can be saved, so the marriage process will be greatly reduced, and even become very simple, go through the process.
4. Premarital conflict intensifies
According to the normal process of marriage will quarrel because of the bride price, not to mention the first entry and then go through the marriage process. In the matter of marriage, if the first license, the man will take the initiative, will not listen to the woman in the bride price, and will even require the bride price to be halved or not to give, the contradiction between the two families will be intensified.