Matchmaker refers to the introducer who connects men and women and introduces the love object. In ancient times, there were women who specialized in introducing marriage as a career, that is, the matchmaker in the "three aunts and six aunts".
Matchmaker, also known as matchmaker, match-maker, mainly for others to connect, need to do the following things:
1. Understand both men and women
This step must ensure the authenticity of the respective information of both sides, and never allow any carelessness, so as to avoid endless future troubles.
2, through the conditions of both men and women to match good candidates
Match the right person according to the conditions of both men and women, contact both sides. If both men and women have the intention to help them on a blind date, so that each other have a further understanding.
3. Help each other communicate during blind dates
On a blind date, a matchmaker will try to allow both parties to spend more time together and get to know each other. If one partner is introverted, help them communicate with each other.
4. Check the intentions of both men and women after the blind date
If both parties are satisfied, then everyone is happy. If one party looks at the other, and one party is not on the eye, the matchmaker has to coordinate and communicate to see if there is room for maneuver. It takes years of experience and the right environment and people to make it work. If it is too difficult to reconcile, then encourage one party to make other plans and continue to help both parties find candidates.
5. Follow up the development of both parties at any time
If you and your partner fall in love after a blind date, keep up with their developments. Of course, there's nothing better than a couple finally getting married. If there is any reason to break up halfway, it is also necessary to carefully help save the relationship. If the truth cannot be sustained, then help both men and women to start again.
In short, the matchmaker should be in line with the service of others, to achieve the desire of marriage as a starting point, timely mediation of the contradictions in the love of two people, so that both men and women more smoothly into the state of marriage. And both men and women, no matter what kind of spiritual path they eventually enter the marriage hall, should be grateful to the matchmaker.