Generally speaking, the men's parents do not need to attend the home banquet. Because the return door banquet is mainly for the bride and groom to go home to visit the woman's parents and family, it is a courtesy for the younger generation to greet the elder, so the man's parents and relatives do not need to attend.
The bridegroom's parents are not required to attend the home banquet.
"Hui door" is also known as "Guining", meaning that after the marriage to visit the parents, is also the last ceremony of the marriage, indicating that the daughter will not forget the parents even if married, son-in-law thanks the parents and newlyweds love and beauty and other meanings.
After the couple returns to the house, the woman's family will hold a reception for guests, but it does not include the man's parents, most of the invited guests are the woman's relatives and friends or friends of the woman's parents.
However, it does not rule out the custom in some places that the man's parents can participate in the woman's return door banquet, and the presence of the man's parents can show the satisfaction of the man's family for the daughter-in-law, and can take the opportunity to improve understanding with the woman's relatives and friends. However, if the man's parents are going to attend the woman's return dinner, they must inform the woman's parents in advance, so as not to neglect the man's parents without knowing.