The reasons why the woman does not want to get a license include emotional and psychological: one reason is that there is no confidence in your feelings, after all, getting a license is fundamentally different from falling in love, if she thinks you have not yet met the requirements of forming a family, naturally she does not want to get a license; Another reason is their premarital phobia, resulting in temporary anxiety and resistance to the upcoming marriage life.
1. Emotional problems
The root cause of not wanting to get a marriage certificate is that the feelings have not arrived, or the woman is not satisfied with the current emotional state of your distrust, before these emotional problems are really solved, she may be difficult to make up her mind to go and you get a license registration.
2. Premarital phobia
Compared with the problems in the relationship, premarital phobia sounds less serious, but it is also not to be ignored and perfunctory.
There are many reasons for premarital phobia, from the influence of the original family, to their own personal growth experience, emotional experience and personality. If you feel that your feelings are stable and have reached the stage of getting a family certificate, then it is suggested that you can deeply communicate with her to see her ideas for marriage, and if there is a fear of marriage, it is timely to do a good job.