In terms of custom and politeness, in more cases, the man goes to the woman's parents first, and after obtaining consent, the woman goes to the man's parents. On the one hand, the man can show his sincerity to the woman's parents first; On the other hand, the woman does not easily go to the man's house also indicates the woman's self-respect and reserve.
Moreover, the woman's parents often have more requirements for the man (after all, it is to marry a daughter), and it is easier for the woman to get the love of the man's parents. If you go through the hardest level first, the road will be better.
Whether it is the boy to see the girl's parents or the girl to see the man's parents, first of all to communicate with their parents, tell your parents about your current specific situation, let your parents feel that you are serious, not just play. It is best not to meet parents suddenly without good communication, which will leave a bad impression on parents, especially the parties should do a good job in the middle of the reconciliation work, and try to make the first meeting between the other half and their parents happy.
Secondly, we should communicate well with the lovers, because if one of the lovers is not ready to meet the parents, it will affect the feelings between the lovers. Meeting the parents also requires a more mature time.