Booking men generally need to prepare the following items:
I. Retainer
The betrothal gift is the most important, which should be wrapped in red envelopes and given to the woman's parents at the time of engagement. Engagement and marriage are the same, there is no need to send red envelopes, no matter how many packets, should be even. The gift is determined according to the economic conditions of the two sides and regional customs. It can also be divided into large and small employment, which should be even and properly packaged with red paper. General employment is a check; The small offer is cash.
2. Betrothal gifts
Betrothal gift refers to the gift that the man pays respect to when he is hired. In our daily life, betrothal gift usually needs to be completed before marriage. Among the problems of how much the betrothal gift is generally given, the most important thing depends on the economic strength of the man's family.
Betrothal gifts are generally divided into simple three gifts, six gifts, eight gifts or twelve gifts, the man can choose according to local customs and traditions, pay attention to choose an even number, meaning peace and beauty, on the day of engagement sent to the bride's home.
3. Jewelry
Modern engagement is relatively casual and simple, the engagement jewelry is not too particular, generally in accordance with the couple's own preferences to choose, and modern parents will also provide some jewelry. But the engagement ring is still a necessary jewelry in the engagement ceremony, many modern engagement rings will use a diamond ring as an engagement ring, which is mainly based on the man's economic status to decide.
Of course, on the engagement day, the mother-in-law also wants to send a greeting gift for the future daughter-in-law, so the engagement ring and various jewelry sent by the mother-in-law are indispensable. Usually before the engagement, jewelry is the engagement ceremony can not be less. The type of engagement jewelry is selected according to the couple's preferences. Usually rings, necklaces, bracelets, earrings, etc.
4. Banquet ceremony
The engagement banquet is usually hosted by the woman's family, the banquet is invited to the man, and the man offers to calculate the woman's family to do the banquet consumption about how much, and then discounted the red envelope to the woman's family.
5. Matchmaking ceremony
The gift to the matchmaker is indispensable, and the specific amount is agreed with the woman, as long as it is more than the woman's.
6. The bridegroom's family and friends
On the day of engagement, the man should have 6 or 10 or 12 friends and relatives to go to the woman's home.