The bride price must be given to the woman's family before marriage, and the bride price can be selected on a suitable auspicious day. Under normal circumstances, the bride price is more on the day of the proposal and the day of the appointment. The man can choose the appropriate date to send the bride price to the woman's home according to the actual conditions.
1, the day of the proposal
Not everywhere there is an offer, but under normal circumstances, before a couple gets married, the man will officially visit the woman's home, whether it is a nominal invitation or not. The man can choose this day as the day of the betrothal gift. Marriage proposal is not as formal as engagement, so you can give the woman a part of the bride gift to show attention, until the official engagement day, in front of the beloved, in front of the rest of the bride gift, to the woman.
2. Make a date
The proposal is not as formal as the engagement, so the betrothal gift is a more appropriate day. Not only will the woman's parents be present on the engagement day, but so will the man's parents and all important relatives and friends. At this time, giving the bride's gift to the woman will not only highlight the man's face, but also make the man's side look more "dignified".
3. The day before the wedding
In some areas, there may not be a marriage proposal, nor is there a custom of betrothal, so the day of the betrothal gift can be the night before the wedding. Giving the bride a gift the night before the wedding has some disadvantages, for example, it is rather rushed and seems less formal, and the woman's family may be busy preparing for the wedding and have no more time and energy for the reception. However, on the day before the wedding, the bride's gift also has advantages, for example, the bride's gift can be placed directly in the hall of the bride's home. The next day, when the guests arrive, they can see how much the bride's bride price is, showing that their wedding is more atmospheric.
4. An auspicious day
In fact, there is no regulation on which day to send the bride's gift before marriage, so if the men and women's families are very busy, it is not necessary to choose a formal occasion and time to send the betrothal gift, the man can choose a lucky day to send the betrothal gift before the wedding. When the rules are in place, time doesn't matter.