At present, the most common order is to propose before getting engaged, that is, to obtain the consent of the lover, and then invite friends and family to witness the engagement. Marriage proposal refers to the consent of the lovers, it is a kind of romantic and love dual interpretation, does not have authority. The engagement ceremony is a ceremony to announce the results of a marriage to the relatives and friends around you, and it is a ceremony to determine the marriage relationship.
Proposal first or engagement first
The social order is marriage proposal followed by engagement. First, the man proposes to the woman, and after obtaining the consent of the woman, they formally meet the parents of both sides, discuss the engagement, hold the engagement ceremony, and determine the marriage relationship. Of course, you can also propose directly at the engagement ceremony, in front of relatives and friends to complete the proposal and engagement ceremony.
The general order of marriage
1. Propose Marriage
It was done by both men and women.
The proposal ceremony is completed alone between the lovers, when the two people's feelings reach a certain sublimation, the boy wants to express his inner love, want to give her a lifetime of happiness, at this time will use the proposal to convey his feelings to the other side. Usually, the boys invite their lovers and their friends to participate, and some of them are in the square, so there are strangers present, or only two people participate, and their parents are usually not present.
2. Getting engaged
Both parents are required to witness.
The engagement must be witnessed by the parents of both sides, the friends and relatives of both sides will gather together, and then choose a high-end restaurant, and formally hold the engagement ceremony, such a ceremony is witnessed and agreed by the parents of both sides. In East Asia, the traditional engagement ceremony is called including Nashi, Nashi, and the following, but in modern times, it is simplified to only retain Nashi.
3. Get Married
Formalize the relationship between husband and wife.
Marriage is the formal establishment of husband and wife relationship between two people, which is protected by law. Therefore, the order of proposal and engagement is first proposal and then engagement. First of all, buy a good diamond engagement ring, hold a romantic marriage proposal ceremony, propose to the lady, after obtaining the lady's consent, the parents meet, hold an engagement ceremony, and agree on the wedding date to get married.