After eight years of marriage, it is not easy to survive the seven-year itch of marriage. Different countries have different appellations for the age of marriage. Chinese people call eight years of marriage bronze marriage, so why do other countries call eight years of marriage?
What is an eight-year marriage
Chinese people call an eight-year marriage "bronze wedding"; Americans call it "electric marriage"; The French call it "Yu Mei people marriage"; Russians call it "white wood marriage"; Similar to Japan, the UK does not target 8 years, only 5 years of "wooden marriage"; 10 years "tin wedding". Then there's the oft-heard "7-year itch," which for us has been successfully broken; We're in our eighth year of marriage.
Two, eight years of marriage sentiment
1. Husband and wife are one. This is an important realization. Can be said to be the general outline of marriage.
2, marriage is used to experience husband and wife. Marriage is to practice how to love.
3. Don't let the old people on both sides worry when arguing. The last thing a woman can do is to go back to her mother's home and cry after a quarrel. The mother's family usually does not work well, and it is not good for the husband and wife. As the saying goes, "the young couple fight without grudges" and "the head of the bed fights the end of the bed." Two people give each other a break, coax a good. But when you get old people on both sides involved, it escalates.
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4. Learn to "count" each other's strengths. This is a lot of benefits, will let you forget all his (her) bad, just think of him (her) good, a think of the good.
5. Stop trying to change each other. Marriage is about making a couple complement each other, not turning him or her into another you. They help each other and encourage each other.
6. Eliminate competition. Couples often argue endlessly over trivial matters. Male and female are two kinds of animals, completely equal in personality, but different in the specific division of labor. I also asked her to do this and that, considering that both work, why should she do all the housework? Do it both ways.
7, people want to talk about dedication. In dealing with the relationship between the husband's family and the mother's family, we must have a bowl of water, and even the other side's old people should be better than their own.
8. Learn to obey one another. A man has to learn how to be a husband, a woman has to learn how to be a wife. Do your own part, the family will be beautiful.
The eighth year of marriage, both sides need a little feeling of electricity, otherwise life is too dull, there is no spark of love, marriage life will be more difficult to operate, you can prepare some anniversary gifts or celebrate the anniversary of the surprise.
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