The man needs to prepare: bride price/betrothal price; Three gold hardware jewelry; A gift; A list of the men's relatives at the engagement party. The woman needs to prepare: return the gift; An engagement party; Engagement host and photographer; Send engagement party invitations; Engagement ceremony items: engagement book, tea supplies, flowers; Wedding reception supplies: candy, dessert, red envelopes, etc. Matchmaker red packet, change red packet.
1. What should the man prepare
1. Bride price/betrothal price
When engaged, the most important thing that the man needs to prepare is the bride price, the specific amount of the bride price is different across the country, some do not have a bride price, there are hundreds of thousands of bride price, each situation is different.
2, three gold hardware jewelry
During the engagement, you need to give the woman clothes, SHOES and gold jewelry such as necklaces, bracelets, rings and earrings, which can also be converted into cash for the woman.
3. Gifts
Engagement gifts mainly include gift cakes, gift boxes, rock candy and other kinds of candy cookies, some men will also send like clothing, bags, watches, bracelets, earrings, headwear, cosmetics, bedding, scarves, stockings, tea sets, sewing boxes and so on, the number is also required to be even.
4. The list of the man's relatives at the engagement party
In addition to his parents, grandparents, there may be some more important elders, it should be noted that the number of people to the woman's family is best even.
Second, what does the woman need to prepare
1. Return the gift
The man prepares the betrothal gift, and the woman also needs to prepare a return gift, which can be a red envelope, or some gifts, such as the man's wedding DRESS, shoes, and so on.
2. Engagement party
Determine the engagement venue, order wedding dishes, order wedding decoration, etc.
3. Engagement host and photographer
If you are a more dressy and ceremonial couple, you can arrange a host and photographer at the engagement party.
4. Engagement ceremony items
Such as engagement books, tea supplies, flowers.
5, order wedding reception guest supplies
Wedding candy, dessert, red envelopes, alcohol and tobacco, engagement cake and so on.
6, matchmaker red envelope, change red envelope
If the matchmaker introduces you, you need to give the matchmaker a red envelope at the engagement party. In many places, the engagement party will have a change ceremony, so the change of red envelopes also need to be prepared.