The money she gives back is for the man. Return gift and bride gift are the two concepts corresponding, bride gift is for the woman, return gift is for the man, generally by both parents.
What is the meaning of bride price
"Since the conclusion of marriage in China since ancient times, there is a custom that the man gives the bride a betrothal price and betrothal gift when the marriage agreement is initially reached, and this betrothal price and betrothal gift are commonly known as" bride price ".
Two, what is the meaning of return gift
After the man sends the bride price to the woman before marriage, if the economic conditions of the woman's family are enough, then they will generally return the gift, which can highlight their own strength, give their daughter a long face, and say that the mother's family is the backing of their daughter.
Three, the general return how much money
The amount of money returned by the woman is uncertain, usually no more than the bride price, and the money will be given to the man, and sometimes the man's parents will give the money back to the son as a living fund for the two small families in the future. Of course, sometimes the woman returns the gift in the form of goods, such as home appliances, or jewelry.
If the woman's family condition is not good, it can also not return the gift only accept the bride price. Part of the bride price can be given to parents to repay the grace of upbringing, and the other part is used as their dowry.