The process of engagement wedding is to welcome the guests into the room, the couple and their parents are seated; The matchmaker speaks and wishes the couple well; The newlyweds greet their elders and offer tea to their parents. Exchange of tokens and engagement rings; Parents make speeches and send blessings; Finally, the couple toasts the guests. When holding an engagement party, pay attention to the communication between the two sides; Book a good day in advance; Prepare the necessary items; The two sides determine the time of engagement and the details of the ceremony to be engaged.
First, the process of engagement wedding
The process of engagement wedding is to welcome the guests into the room, the couple and their parents are seated; The matchmaker speaks and wishes the couple well; Greet the elders in the family and the new person changes his mouth to offer tea to both parents; Newlyweds exchange tokens and engagement rings; Parents make speeches and send blessings; Finally, the couple toasts the guests.
1. Greet guests
The couple will usually prepare for an engagement party, as the host of the engagement party must personally greet the guests and welcome them to the corresponding position. After welcoming the play guests, the couple and their parents are seated.
2. The matchmaker speaks
If both men and women are introduced by a middleman, then you need to let the matchmaker give a speech on the day of the engagement, because he is the witness of the love of the two of you, and let the third party express the good wishes of the couple's love history.
3. Greet your elders
During the engagement ceremony, there is a part of greeting the elders, that is, the man introduces the bride-to-be to his parents, and the woman introduces the groom to her parents. After the introduction, the prospective couple will also change their tea to the parents of both sides, and the parents of both sides will give the new couple a red envelope. However, in some areas, the custom of changing the mouth is on the wedding day, so the change link needs to be determined according to their local customs.
4. Exchange tokens
The exchange of tokens is also the exchange of tokens of love, which now generally refers to the exchange of engagement rings, of course, if the two people have other tokens of love, it is also possible.
5, parents speech
Looking at their children engaged, parents must have a lot of feelings, so in the parents' speech, parents can express their complex feelings, and send good wishes to the couple.
6. Toast
When the traditional engagement ceremony is over, there is a toast. As the host, the prospective couple must have a table to toast and accept the blessings of the guests.
Ii. Precautions for engagement wedding
To hold an engagement wedding, pay attention to the communication between the two parties, and book a good day in advance, prepare the required items, and both parties determine the time of engagement and the details of the ceremony to be engaged.
1. Pay attention to communication
Before the engagement wedding, it is best to have a meeting between the parents of both sides, because the customs of different places are different, there will be differences in the day of contradiction, so if there is a meeting before the engagement, it will be better to solve the contradictions caused by the differences in customs, and you can discuss the ceremony process on the day of engagement.
2. Book a good day in advance
In traditional Chinese wedding customs, elders will take the eight characters of the couple and find a suitable date. Early booking good days, generally there will be no change, you can start to book the hotel, be sure to book the hotel in advance, so as not to book the hotel.
3. Get everything you need
Both the bride and groom should prepare their own supplies.
Bride-to-be:
1) Select a number of gift red envelopes
2) Prepare tea
3) Prepare sweet dumplings and snacks
4) Return gifts to the groom, such as hats, ties, clothing, cufflinks, etc
Groom-to-be:
1) Gift money
2) Betrothal gifts, sent to the wife's home
3) The number of people accompanying the man to the woman's home, 6, 10, 12 can be
4. Determine the time of engagement
In the traditional wedding, China pays more attention to good timing, so it is also important to determine a time of engagement. For example, the general time of engagement is 10:00 in the morning to the woman's home, which means perfection.
5. Determine the ceremony
In the traditional engagement ceremony, there are ancestor worship, bread to welcome, introduction, sweet tea, tea ou, finger rings, the woman's return and other links, the whole process is very tedious, and may have differences because of the different customs of the two sides, then the need for two families to communicate more, can be appropriate to simplify some ceremonies, reach a consensus.