General need to bring tobacco and wine, tea, specialty products, fruits, health products and other gifts. Homecoming is the newlyweds' first visit home as husband and wife. It is the final part of a traditional wedding, and the groom needs to show enough sincerity to put the in-laws at ease. However, due to different marriage customs, the gifts required to carry are different, depending on the local situation.
First, what do I need to bring back to the door
General need to bring tobacco and wine, tea, specialty products, fruits, health products and other gifts. The return door is the newlyweds' first visit home as husband and wife, which is the final link of the whole wedding, and the groom needs to show enough sincerity to let the in-laws rest assured. However, due to different marriage customs, the gifts required to carry are different, depending on the local situation.
1. Tobacco and alcohol
Fathers prefer to smoke and drink, so no matter whether someone in the bride's family smokes and drinks, they should also send some tobacco and wine gifts, which is the etiquette.
2. Gifts
If the date is adjacent to traditional festivals, such as the Mid-Autumn Festival, Dragon Boat Festival, Spring Festival, etc., you can carry some holiday gifts, mooncake gift boxes, zongzi gift boxes are a good choice.
3. Special Products
If the couple is married in different places, the man can bring his own specialties, and the dim sum food made by the groom's parents can better reflect the importance of the woman.
4. Fruit milk
Fruit and milk is a more daily gift, but also the most error-prone gift, it is convenient and simple to eat, and the elderly will like it.
5. Health care products
If there are elders in the woman's family who are not in good health, you can buy some health products and massagers to reflect the groom's seriousness and care.
6. Tea
Tea is a traditional gift of the Chinese nation, tea is healthy and high-grade, good help to the body, older elders like to taste tea health, prepare good tea will make them happy.
Second, what pay attention to the return door
1. Return time
In ancient times, the return time is usually 3, 6, 7, 8, 9 days after marriage, and now the return time is generally on the third day after marriage.
2. DRESS up the back door
The clothing of the back door should be simple and generous, and the color should also be festive. You can choose red cheongsam, dresses, coats, etc.
3, back door banquet
Some families will hold a return dinner to entertain the bride's relatives and friends who were not present at the wedding, and the bride will accompany the groom to toast one by one, accept everyone's blessings and express gratitude.