1, false bestie will face a set behind a set, praise you in front of people, behind you slander. 2. Will deliberately make you look bad in front of everyone. 3. Show yourself to your boyfriend. 4, will treat you as a servant girl. 5. They take advantage of you. Close to you when you are used, distance you when you are not used. 7. Not offering to help you. 8. Making fun of you.
1. Say one thing to your face and another behind your back
A real bestie will get along with you sincerely, and will not play tricks. Fake bestie will praise you in front of people, get your good feelings, and will deliberately slander you behind the back and destroy your image outside.
2. Deliberately making a fool of yourself in front of everyone
A fake bestie doesn't care about your feelings, treats you like a joke, makes a fool of you in front of everyone and doesn't help you out.
3. Show yourself to your boyfriend
Real BFFS aren't interested in their best friend's boyfriend, but fake BFFS will act out in front of your boyfriend to impress him.
4. Treat you like a servant girl
Real bestie is to understand each other and help each other, false bestie will deliberately put you as a servant girl to help her do things, but never help you do things.
Image source:
5. Taking advantage of you
Whether it is spiritual or material, they will always deliberately take advantage of you to obtain psychological satisfaction.
Close to you when I use you, alienate you when I don't
A fake bestie will use you as a product, deliberately getting close to you when you are useful to her, but alienating you when you are not useful to her, repeatedly.
7. Not offering to help you
When you encounter problems, she will deliberately avoid you and will not take the initiative to help you. Even when you are in trouble, she will not lend you a hand.
8. Making fun of you
Fake BFFS will mock you to feel superior. But when you get angry, you explain it as a joke.