When engaged, the man needs to prepare the endowment money, four gifts, three gold and other items to the woman, the woman needs to prepare the engagement wedding, clothes, ACCESSORIES, specialties and other gifts to the man. Both men and women should also prepare a red envelope for the matchmaker as a thank you gift.
What does the engaged man need to prepare
1. Retainer
At the time of engagement, the man should give the woman a certain amount of bride price, the amount of bride price is not special rules, according to local customs and personal family situation.
2. Four gifts
Common four gifts for tobacco, wine, tea, sugar, the number of these gifts should be even, there are pairs of good meaning, can also be given other gifts, such as chicken, duck fish, dessert, candles and so on.
3, three gold
At the time of engagement, the man needs to give the woman three gold (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings) or hardware (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold bracelets, gold pendants), and can also be discounted so that the woman can buy her own favorite jewelry.
4. Banquet ceremony
The engagement is usually prepared by the woman, but in some areas, the man will discount the money for the banquet to the woman.
5. Family and Friends
When engaged, the man needs to bring 6, 8 or 10 friends and relatives to the woman's home, reflecting the importance of the man's engagement.
6. The matchmaker ceremony
If a man and a woman are introduced to each other through a matchmaker, they need to prepare a red envelope for the matchmaker and thank the matchmaker for letting them know each other.
Second, what does the engaged woman need to prepare
1. Clothes and accessories
The woman needs to prepare suits, SHOES, ties, watches and other clothing accessories for the man when engaged to show his thoughtfulness and love.
2. Engagement party
The woman needs to prepare an engagement party, feed the man and his family, and express her gratitude for the man's betrothal gifts.
3. Special Products
The woman can buy some special products, fruits, daily necessities, health products, etc., as a gift to the man.
4. The matchmaker ceremony
The woman should also prepare a matchmaker gift to thank the matchmaker for making the marriage happen.