1, vote for their interests, understand each other's interests, and use this as a starting point to start the topic.
2, from the other party's last sentence to find keywords, according to the keywords to expand the chat content.
3, pay attention to each other's mood, according to each other's mood set the content of the chat.
1. Do what they want
Interest is the best topic breakthrough point, you can first understand each other's interests and hobbies, according to each other's interests and hobbies to collect relevant topics, in the chat, with each other's interests as the starting point, to start the chat.
2. Find key words in what the other person is saying
According to the content of the other person's last sentence, seize the key words of the content, and use the key words as the starting point of the next topic to start the chat. This will allow for a natural transition to the next topic without awkwardness.
3, pay attention to each other's mood, according to each other's mood set the content of the chat
Chatting with the opposite sex, we must have vision and pay attention to each other's mood. According to the mood of the other party, set the "color" of the chat content. For example, if the other party is in a bad mood, you can't talk about some particularly depressing topics, which will make the other party's mood worse, which is not desirable.