According to traditional customs, it is not allowed to sleep in the family home on the third day after marriage. In the old days, there was a custom of not having an empty room within a month of marriage, so it was best to rush back to the new house on the same night, if you must live in the mother's house, the couple should also sleep in separate rooms. However, local customs are slightly different, with the development of The Times, some ideas have also changed, and a few days at the marriage door can also be freely chosen according to the newlywed couple.
Three dynasties Hui door as the name suggests, that is, the third day after marriage when the return home, this etiquette is also the last etiquette of marriage. In the northeast of China, this etiquette is also called "double back door". It means that the husband and wife return to their mother's home for the first time after marriage, indicating that the two people love each other, love and happiness, and there are daughters to thank their parents for raising them, and son-in-law to thank their parents-in-law.
The problem of staying in the mother's home for a few days after marriage is generally the same day to return on the same day, you can not stay overnight in the mother's home. Not only the return door, but also on traditional Chinese festivals can not live in the family. Although the ideas of young people have changed, but if the elders value the customs in this area, it is better to respect, and you can ask the customs of the woman's family in advance.