Now some young people will be afraid of marriage, the main reason is that the family of origin has caused some harm to them; Insecurity, fear of not being satisfied with love; Unable to deal with the relationship between lovers and relatives; Fear of childbearing affects quality of life and so on.
1, the harm of the original family
In the growth experience, the lack of sufficient attention and love given by the nurturers, I will subconsciously think that I am not worthy of love, but on the conscious level, I keep seeking to be loved. Therefore, in the interaction with intimate partners, you will want to be the one who is loved and has more attention. In such an interactive relationship, you often project your partner as your "ideal lover", in life if he does not do well, will be misunderstood not love you enough, such a mood will affect the fear of marriage in the marriage mood.
3. Fear that you won't be able to handle closer relationships
4. Fear of childbirth affects quality of life
There are also many people afraid of marriage is worried that fertility will affect their quality of life, which is a psychological expression of no confidence in their future. At the same time, some people are afraid of marriage because they have doubts about their ability to be good parents.