Giving gifts is not the same thing. It means that the bride puts gifts from relatives and friends into the dowry box. With the gift is also called with the party, the party.
Two, what is the gift
With the gift is now called "money", is the marriage custom, gift custom. When giving gifts, relatives and friends will generally be a collective partnership, share the money, before the marriage of men and women, relatives and friends according to the agreed amount of money, concentrated after the gift, delivered to the man and woman who will be married. In the old time, the gifts were limited to the relatives and friends of the male family, and the relatives and friends of the modern female family have also been vulgar since.
About adding boxes:
1, adding a box is a ceremony of the woman's family
The gifts are generally given by the relatives of the woman's family, and the items presented are generally with the beautiful expectations of the woman's married life in her husband's family.
3. Fill up the boxes
The gift box is the woman's relatives and friends prepared for the woman's family, the old will send candy bars, fried peanuts, etc., now generally send bedding, grandchildren bucket, red basin, sugar jar, SHOES and socks, jewelry and other gifts on behalf of the wedding blessing, do not know what can be sent directly instead of gift money, the more things on behalf of the woman more face.
5, the ceremony is generally a day or two before the woman is married
About the gift:
1, with the gift is generally the two sides of the family, friends, colleagues and other people
How much money to send with the wedding gift depends on the relationship between the couple, and in principle, follow one's ability.
In general, ordinary colleagues, friends to send 200-300 yuan is more moderate, the relationship is particularly good friends, relatives to send more than 800-1000, family elders friendship is good or even tens of thousands of no problem. The number of gifts as far as possible to please the head, preferably in pairs, but to skip the number 4. Numbers like 2, 5, 6, and 8 are the most popular. Of course, 666, 888 and the like are better.