First, the meaning of the ancient six rites
1. Natse
The first of the six rites is equivalent to the modern proposal. If the man wants to marry the woman, he needs to ask the matchmaker to go to the woman's home to propose the marriage and send the natse gift to the woman's home to show his sincerity.
After the bride's parents accept the proposal, the matchmaker will bring the girl's birthdate back to the man's house for future fortune-telling.
3. Nagy
The man is looking for someone to measure the birthdates of the two people to see if they contradict each other, if not, the man begins to prepare the relevant gifts and matters for marriage.
5. Request period
The men's family chooses the auspicious day of marriage, and seeks the consent of the women's family, if there is no objection, the wedding date is officially set.
On the wedding day, the groom needs to bring a welcome book, accompanied by matchmakers, relatives and friends to the woman's home to marry the bride, showing respect for the woman and sincerity.
Two, what should Natse prepare
2. Gifts
The man also needs to prepare some gifts when proposing marriage, the common six gifts or eight gifts, eight gifts usually include tobacco, wine, tea, sugar, cake, noodles, fish, meat and so on. The types of gifts vary according to local customs, and the man should understand in advance and respect local customs.