It is best not to marry someone who is attending a funeral at home, divorced or widowed, or the husband's aunt. But the specific people who cannot participate in picking up relatives are still related to local customs, so when choosing to pick up relatives, you can first ask the elders in the family about the local customs and taboos.
1. The person who handles funerals at home
Generally speaking, it is best to avoid weddings and funerals, so those who have recently had funerals at home should avoid participating in the wedding reception activity to avoid conflicting with the good fortune of the newlyweds.
2. Divorced and widowed individuals
In many places, it is emphasized that unmarried people should be the main ones when receiving or sending off relatives. If married elders participate in the reception, it is best not to choose divorced, remarried, or widowed individuals.
3. The man's aunt
The custom of "aunt not picking up, aunt not sending" is also common in many places. Because "aunt" sounds like "gu" or "gu", and "aunt" sounds like "doubt", they are not very auspicious words in marriage. Therefore, it is best for both the man's aunt and the woman's aunt not to participate in picking up or sending off relatives.