1. Advance understanding of the situation: Understand the preferences and physical condition of the other party's family members in advance.
2. Pay attention to DRESSing and makeup: neat and elegant, apply light makeup to brighten your complexion.
3. Pay attention to gift selection: When choosing a gift, it is important to show care and choose according to the preferences of the recipient's parents.
4. Pay attention to sitting posture: polite, appropriate, and cultured.
1. Pay attention to understanding the situation in advance
Before meeting with the parents of the partner, it is important to understand their family situation in advance. Having a basic understanding of the other party's family composition/preferences, as well as their individual physical conditions, can help them better prepare.
2. Pay attention to clothing and makeup
First impressions are very important, as clothing and makeup have a significant impact on a person's appearance. Both boys and girls should choose simple and elegant styles when dressing, and ensure that they are neat and appropriate.
Proper makeup can make a girl's complexion look better, so wearing light makeup is more appropriate. But be careful not to wear heavy makeup that is too seductive. There is a gap in the aesthetic and concept of older generations compared to the younger generation, and such makeup may make older generations feel that girls have a frivolous style.
3. Pay attention to the selection of gifts
It is necessary to prepare a suitable and heartfelt gift when visiting other people, and the same goes for the visiting parents.
The quality of a gift is not determined by its price or value, but by its sincerity. Before meeting with parents, it is advisable to prepare gifts based on prior knowledge, such as not buying gifts that do not match the preferences of the target parent, or preparing targeted gifts based on the family members of the other party.
4. Pay attention to the posture of walking and sitting
As the saying goes, sitting requires sitting posture, standing requires standing posture. By sitting and standing, one can observe a person's upbringing.
When meeting the parents of a partner, it is advisable to maintain good manners and posture. Walking unsteadily, fidgeting, or crossing legs are all unacceptable.
5. Pay attention to the distance from the object
When meeting with the parents of the partner, special attention should be paid to maintaining a distance from the partner. Chinese people pay attention to being introverted and reserved. If they are too intimate, their parents will feel uncomfortable.