The groom's family should bring the groom himself, his parents, respected elders, and if there is a matchmaker, a matchmaker should also be brought along. In the process of proposing a marriage, these characters are very important. If parents are unable to do so on the spot due to some reasons, the groom's family must pay attention to inviting a more prestigious person to propose with the groom to show respect for the bride.
The process of proposing a marriage
1. In different regions, there may be some differences in the timing of betrothal. For example, in some places, the betrothal time is in the morning, and the groom and his parents should arrive at the bride's house before 12 o'clock, while in some places, 5:30 pm is considered the betrothal time. Therefore, the groom must understand the customs of the bride's hometown in advance.
2. Both parents explained their purpose when meeting.
3. After talking at home, you can go to the reserved restaurant for a meal or have lunch at the woman's house.
4. Conversations during meals can enhance mutual understanding, and the two parties can discuss matters such as dowries.
5. After the meal and conversation, the man's family left.