It is appropriate for the man to propose to the woman's family with 4 to 5 people. Including the prospective groom, groom's parents, and a respected elder in the family, if introduced by a matchmaker, it is also necessary to bring the matchmaker along. If parents are unable to attend, the groom's family must pay attention to inviting a more prestigious person to propose marriage with the groom to show respect for the bride.
Proposal process
1. In different regions, there may be some differences in the timing of betrothal. For example, in some places, the betrothal time is in the morning, and the groom and his parents should arrive at the bride's house before 12 o'clock, while in some places, 5:30 pm is considered the betrothal time. Therefore, the groom must understand the customs of the bride's hometown in advance.
2. Both parents explained their purpose when meeting.
3. After talking at home, you can go to the reserved restaurant for a meal or have lunch at the woman's house.
4. Conversations during meals can enhance mutual understanding, and the two parties can discuss matters such as dowries.
5. After the meal and conversation, the man's family left.