At the engagement banquet, the newlyweds first toast the people at the main table, which is usually occupied by close and high ranking elders, such as the parents and grandparents of both parties. After expressing gratitude to the parents and elders of both parties, they then toast others.
The Etiquette of Toasting at an Engagement Banquet
1. When toasting, first pay tribute to both parents, and then pay tribute to others.
2. Toasting must be presented to every table and every person.
3. When toasting, the newlyweds should personally pour the wine for the guests and hold it with both hands.
4. When toasting, the new person's cup mouth should be lower than the guest's to show respect.
5. Wait for the guest to put down their glass before offering respect to the next guest.
6. To avoid the newlyweds getting drunk, drinks can be used as a substitute for toasting.
7. The time for toasting should be well controlled, and can be determined based on the number of tables. Generally, toasting can be done shortly after the start of the banquet.
8. Just serve the toast, don't ask all guests to finish it, and don't linger at the same table for too long.