Returning: Refers to a woman getting married. 'Gui' means' return '. In ancient times, it was believed that a woman's husband's family was her ultimate destination, and marrying into her husband's family was the true meaning of returning home;
Guining: also known as Huimen, refers to a married woman returning to her parents' home to visit them. Newlywed couples usually bring gifts to visit the bride's home on the third day of their wedding.
What are the requirements for Guining
1. Time
In ancient times, the time for returning home was usually on the 3rd, 6th, 7th, 8th, and 9th day after marriage. Nowadays, the groom usually accompanies the bride to visit her parents and relatives on the third day after marriage.
2. Clothing
The best attire for returning home is new clothes, with festive colors as the main color. Red cheongsams, coats, and DRESSes are more favored by brides. Remember not to wear cold colored clothes such as black or gray when returning home.
3. Etiquette and Etiquette
When returning home, you cannot go empty handed. You should bring gifts such as tobacco, alcohol, tea, local specialties, red envelopes, etc. to show your appreciation for the bride's family. The quantity should be even, symbolizing that good things come in pairs.
4. Banquet
Most families will hold a homecoming banquet on the day their daughters return home, inviting some relatives and friends who did not attend the wedding. At the banquet, the bride should accompany the groom to toast their parents, relatives, and friends one by one, thanking the guests for their blessings.