Both men and women should consider which party will hold the wedding first, and negotiate to decide which one will be the main wedding venue. The main wedding venue needs to have a complete process of receiving the bride, taking an oath, exchanging rings, toasting, etc. Another venue may have appropriate exemptions.
1、 The groom and bride will each hold a wedding ceremony
1. The male party will handle it first
The groom's first event refers to holding a homecoming banquet at the bride's house after the groom's main wedding banquet, and the time interval should not be too long. The homecoming banquet is a banquet held by the groom to accompany the bride back to her mother's home. The process is relatively simple, mainly including the host's speech, the newlyweds' entrance, the oath taking ceremony, and toasting. Usually, there are no steps such as welcoming the bride or exchanging rings.
2. The female party will handle it first
If the female party holds the wedding first, the banquet is also called a pavilion banquet. In certain regions, the female party will hold an out of court banquet on the morning of the wedding day and attend the main wedding banquet at the male party's house at noon. If the new family is in a distant place, a banquet should be held a few days in advance.
2、 Precautions for preparing a wedding in a different location
1. Understand local wedding customs
Different regions have different wedding customs, so it is important to understand in advance whether the other party's family has any special customs. If possible, try to respect and carefully plan every detail of the wedding to satisfy both parties.
2. Preparation of wedding supplies
Newlyweds who get married in different places should prepare various wedding supplies in advance, such as invitations, wedding letters, red envelopes, cigarettes, alcohol, etc. Both the bride and groom's families should consider carefully to avoid unnecessary trouble.
3. Book a hotel in advance
Getting married in a different location usually requires both the man and the woman to hold a wedding ceremony. Newlyweds need to book hotels and banquets for both weddings in advance, confirm the wedding process and the decoration of the wedding venue. Regardless of which wedding is the main wedding banquet, it should be taken seriously.
4. Arrange for family and friends to travel in advance
Marriage requires the attendance of relatives and friends. When getting married in a different location, there may be situations where one party's relatives cannot be present on the spot. Newlyweds need to determine the number of attendees in advance and arrange their tickets, air tickets, accommodation, etc.