Marriage by marriage is a traditional Chinese wedding custom, which refers to the meeting and discussion between a man and a woman before marriage, exchanging birthdates and eight characters to predict whether the door, house, and zodiac signs match. It is also known as "Eight Character Marriage" in modern times.
1、 Is it necessary to get married together
1. From a destiny perspective
Eight character marriage is the process of comparing the birthdates and eight characters of a man and a woman to see if they are harmonious, in order to infer the auspiciousness or inauspiciousness of their marital life, and provide some solutions to prevent potential problems in their future marriage and improve their marital happiness index.
2. From a scientific perspective
The happiness of a marital relationship is not closely related to one's birth chart, but rather depends on the personalities and beliefs of both parties. If both parties tolerate, understand, support, and encourage each other after marriage, then their marriage must be happy and there is no need to care about the outcome of the marriage.
2、 Common methods of marriage
1. Zodiac marriage
Those whose birth years are mutually exclusive or conflicting should not be married, while those who are compatible or mutually born should be married. The zodiac signs that clash are Rat and Horse, Ox and Sheep, Tiger and Monkey, Rabbit and Rooster, Dragon and Dog, Snake and Pig. The compatible zodiac signs are Tiger Pig Union, Monkey Snake Union, Dragon Chicken Union, Horse Sheep Union, Rabbit Dog Union, Rat Ox Union.
2. Five element marriage
According to the five elements of the year of male and female birth, it is best if the five elements of male and female are mutually generated or identical. The relationship between the Five Elements: Wood generates fire, fire generates soil, soil generates metal, metal generates water, and water generates wood.
3. Xingsha Marriage
It is not advisable to have too many "peach blossoms" in the Chinese astrological system. The appearance of many "bright red" and "flowing clouds" in women is considered unlucky.